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Some men see things as they are and ask Why? I dream things that never were and ask, Why not? -RFK para GBS

Traverse City Regional Psychiatric Hospital Desk

I’ve been in search of a desk large enough to hold my laptop and the old Underwood, but with little luck in my price-range.  Yesterday I revisited my favorite desk, tucked into a corner of the antique warehouse in Elk Rapids.  I’ve returned to see it several times, but the price was firm and out of range.  Through the kindness of the dealer, who offered it at half the price, I am now seated at a wonderful double-sided psychiatric desk from the Old State Hospital.  

It’s big and old and worn and perfect.  And together we will write in any medium – including pen and ink – to celebrate the purpose of such a well-situated structure.  

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To make things more interesting, the folks at the warehouse included a prescription tablet found in the back of one of the desk drawers.  

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There’s no place like home

I nearly cried watching the movers carry the first box off the truck, but I thought better of it and instead took the time to reflect on the long, winding couple of years leading to this moment.  And unpacking has been like Christmas on steroids (sorry for the hint of sacrilege - I really don’t mean anything by it other than it’s nice to experience such excitement over opening unmarked box after box after box).

We’re loving the new house – I was so concerned it wouldn’t feel like home, but the first night, as I tucked the girls into bed and turned the last light off in the house, silence settled and I realized it’s really no different than before – a house isn’t what makes the home, though we like this particular house quite a lot.

That first night, around midnight, Erick and I took ice-cream out on the front porch and watched the slow ascent of stars and fireflies flicker in the field across the street.  In 2003, we stood before this house as it was being built and said we’d love to have a house like it someday, and there we were looking out on the place where we once stood.  It wasn’t a feeling of accomplishment, but of relief.  We’re finally in a place where the neighbors stop by to check in on us and the cows moo before a storm out at pasture – far more accurate than any weather station; we feel we’re at a point where we can settle for some time and after a couple of years of upheaval (four moves and two states later), we’ve arrived some place; we’ve come home.

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The long haul

We’ve started moving into the new house.  Last night our neighbors stopped by and welcomed us to the neighborhood which was a nice surprise.  Everyone seems very friendly and today Erick installed a porch swing, so we spent a few minutes enjoying nature and extremely balmy temperatures (a true Michigan oddity).  

The moving truck arrives Friday and we have a line-up of helpers, so I’m confident we’ll be all unpacked this weekend.  At the moment, we’ve moved in some of our belongings we took with us to Charlotte, but we don’t have much in the way of furniture, so all we can really do is clean and install appliances. 

The girls are really excited to be “home” again.  They love the house and have already made friends with the neighbor’s golden retriever.  :-)   Erick had to break for a meeting in town, so we’re relaxing at Grandpas.  Hope you (Reader, et al) are well.

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It’s official…

We’re home-owners!

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Child of the Sea

County of Michilimackinac, 1st day of October, 1850

Dwelling # 242

Andre Courchane – 48 yrs old. Fisherman born in Canada
Abigail – 24 yrs old, born in Ohio
Lucy – 8 yrs old, born in Mich
Emily – 6 yrs born in Mich
Margaret – 4 yrs. born in Mich

I was looking through some older posts and came across one about our family tree.  Above is the Courchaine family (”Heart of Oak”) and listed are my great, great, great, great, great grandparents and their three daughters.  Andre and Abigail died five years later on St. Helena Island (just west of Mackinac) during the cholera epidemic of 1855 and were buried on Round Island.  Margaret, the youngest, moved with her older sisters back to Mackinac Island where she grew up and later met Captain Alexander Ranville.  Together they began the Homestead Hotel and the rest, as they say, is history.

I was noticing the similarities to our own family.  Even some of the names are the same, the spacing of ages, all daughters and we are still near the Straits.   In her book Child of the Sea, Elizabeth Whitney Williams writes of the Courchaine family from her recollection as a small child leaving St. Helena for Beaver Island:

While more people were coming as more help was needed to finish the ship, all was busy bustle among the neighbors for there was to be a great gathering to watch the launching of the ship.  Soon another family came, old friends of my mother’s, a Mr. and Mrs. Courchane.  The man had come from Montreal, Canada, to Mackinac Island a few years before and there met and married pretty Miss Abbie Williams.  Aunt Abbie we children always called her.  Mother was so happy to have her friend with her.  They had three little girls.  Mr. Courchane was a ship carpenter by trade and came to help finish the vessel.  They were very kind neighbors to us.  Their little girls’ names were Lucy, Emmeline, and Margarette.  They lived just a few steps from our house; we children were all very happy together.  …

I remember it now, so white and clean with mother sitting near in her sewing chair, sewing and joining in the singing.  Then pretty Aunt Abbie coming in; she always looked to me like a picture, with her great dark eyes and black hair braided so smoothly and pretty red cheeks with white teeth just showing between red lips.  She, too, would join in the singing, which was pleasant to remember.  …

I remember our neighbors coming to the beach to see us off.  Aunt Abbie took me in her arms; the tears fell fast on my face.  I thought it was raining and held out my hand, as I had seen father do to catch the drops, but no, it was not raining, it was tears falling from our dear friend’s eyes.  When father called out “all aboard,” I was clasped in another tight pressure of her arms.  …

Mother said afterward I looked everywhere calling “Aunt Abbie,” and cried when I could not find her and Baby Margarette.

It’s something special to read of your ancestors in such detail at a time when there were no photos to capture the image of a person down to the subtleties of their smile.  I consider this text a gift and it is the only description I have of Abigail and her family.  

Without ever knowing the history of our family, I have always felt a special connection to the Straits of Mackinac and specifically to the islands.  It’s hard not to, but my mother always said, “It’s in your blood,” and now I know precisely what she meant.  

 

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Walden

We stopped by a cafe while waiting for our closing today and on one of the tables I found an old copy of Walden.  This inspired a later purchase of the novel.  I had a wonderful children’s edition of the book, but had never read the novel.  So far, I’m thoreau-ly enjoying it.  Sorry- couldn’t resist.

Seriously, though, the book really hits home- especially with the slow unwind of our once steroid-strong economy.  And it touches on elements of permaculture which only makes sense, but I hadn’t anticipated.  Even if you have only a few minutes each day to read, I recommend reading or re-reading Walden.

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And the move begins…

Wow, this is going to be a BIG project.  We’ve begun loading the truck and we have a long way to go before it’s all done.  Tomorrow is the closing and immediately following we’ll head to the house for a preliminary cleaning.  We have to buy and install the appliances tomorrow as well and move in anything we’ve accumulated while living in Charlotte.  

Tuesday is the big move out of storage, but we’ll have lots of help with that.  And then more cleaning as we get the apartment ready for Erick’s family to come and stay in July.  I can’t wait to see the place with our stuff out of it.  It’s been such a close space because of all of our furniture combined with the existing furniture, but as we move stuff out, I’m beginning to see how nice the kitchen addition will be for guests. 

Kate has given me some good curtain advice – my go-to gal for all things domestic.  We really need curtains and I don’t want to spend a lot of money on them, so Kate devised an affordable window treatment that I can make on my own.  The house had curtain clips in the master and I really appreciated the style, so if it goes well, I’ll mimic the look in other rooms of the house.

Here’s the new place.  

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On a moving side-note:  Yesterday while packing, I found a box addressed to us from last year.  Inside I found Christmas presents from Erick’s aunt and uncle, so mid-June, we had a small Christmas celebration.  I must have hid the box from the girls and forgotten.  Anyway, it was a fun surprise.  :-)

If you’re interested in helping with the big move, send me an email.  Otherwise, see you on the other side of this huge transition!

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Reflecting on a crazy week

What a strange week.  Our closing was delayed and we hit a major stumbling block with the whole “Site Condo” verbiage.  We are now ready to close this weekend and will move next week sometime (if not on Sunday).  

I picked up an old rotary dial phone from an antique dealer in Elk Rapids earlier in the week.  It was manufactured in 1963 and is black (oh, and it works!), so I’m thrilled.  I’ve always wanted one and it’s fun to watch people come into the house and play with the dial.  Our girls are really into it.  It’s such a tactile experience.  

My grandmother had one in her house up in Mackinaw and I remember unplugging it and playing with the dial, so the girls seem to have the same pre-occupation.  

Erick got an early Father’s Day gift yesterday – a ping-pong table for our new garage.  He’s really excited and so are the girls and I to play our first match.  

Have a great weekend!

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The Fox and the Child

The reviews were half-hearted, but I blame the reviewers who lacked a sense of wonder in their own surroundings.  If you’re going to ask, as did one critic, “Why is the film so unpeopled,” then it’s not the film for you.

However, if you’re looking for a beautiful film about love and letting go; about letting the wild be wild, this is a great piece.  It highlights the importance of respect between people and other animals while showing us how beautiful a relationship between a child and a semi-tamed fox can be.

Set in the Bavarian hillside, this film is as beautiful to watch as it is touching.  

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Salvage

photoWe salvaged this old desk, abandoned to the rainy alleyway behind an old house downtown.  The desk curves in at the center and appears to have been hand-made by someone locally, so I made it a point to save it.  When we got it home, I had to let it sit for a few days to dry out, then break the drawers to get them open (Erick’s grandfather helped with this part – they were really stuck).  

Afterward, I sanded, then re-sanded, stained and polyurethaned, the girls added their own hardware and now the little desk is ready to become their very own craft table.  

Here are some before and afters:

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